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Empathy Cafe

Empathy Cafe

Reflective listening in small breakout groups
An empathy cafe is a facilitation method which allows each individual to speak and be heard for whatever is alive for them. Participants take turns to speak for an allocated time, and another participant reflects back what they have heard.

What is
Empathy Cafe
about ?

What is
Empathy Cafe
about ?
What is this Method about ?
When and why is this Method used ?

Empathy cafes foster warmth and connection within groups, and provide the opportunity for work colleagues and group members to get to know and understand each other better. They are therefore good for team building.
Empathy cafes teach skills like active listening, and encourage individuals to develop understanding for different perspectives and personality types. While the process is simple, empathy cafes are designed to promote a culture of empathy, and for many people they are the first step on a lifelong journey of deep listening and understanding.
Empathy cafes can also be used as a mediation tool. They can help to de-escalate conflict, and are a useful means for people with different viewpoints (for instance different political beliefs) to better understand each other.
They can be used as part of a decision making process, and can be particularly useful when a collaborative decision needs to be made and there are strongly held positions which seem at odds with each other. Following an empathy cafe, participants are far more likely to be willing to adjust their position to take into account the needs and concerns of other parties to the decision, and empathy cafes can help people to move beyond the closed thinking of an ‘either/or’ decision to reach a new and innovative decision that everyone is happy with.

Audience

Audience

Is participant experience relevant for Empathy Cafe ?

It's okay if participants haven't seen the inside of a classroom in years

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Audience description for Empathy Cafe

Empathy cafes are suitable for anyone. They are a good means for groups who work together to get to know each other better, but they are equally valuable for individuals who will have no ongoing relationship with the other attendees. They are also used as a mediation tool.

Requirements

Requirements
Experience level of the facilitator
Taken part OR some facilitation experience
Number of Facilitators :  
1 facilitator is needed for each subgroup
How Stationary
Stationary necessary, at least in parts
Location requirements

enough space for each subgroup to sit comfortably and converse with the other members of their circle without interruption.

Run Through

Run Through
Prep Work (excluding materials)

Set the theme of the empathy cafe. Ensure you have enough facilitators for the number of subgroups, and that each facilitator has some means of tracking the time. Ensure there are enough spaces for the subgroups to move to, and that there are enough chairs, or whatever is necessary to make people comfortable. Decide how long each person will speak for (usually 3-5 minutes).

Pre Exercise

Online

Online
Potential for Solely Online & Blended Learning

Yes, regular empathy cafes have been running online throughout the entire Covid-19 lockdown period. All that is needed is a video conferencing platform with break-out room facilities. The host, or a dedicated technical support person, should be familiar with setting up breakout rooms.

In terms of facilitation, there is very little difference between online and face to face empathy circles. It is best to avoid using sound to indicate the thirty second warning when online, as this can cause interference - use visual signals instead, for example holding a phone up to the camera, or (a more gentle option) holding a candle up to the camera.

Material for

Additional Material Description

All that’s really needed is a time-keeping device for each of the empathy circles within the empathy cafe, and somewhere comfortable to sit. It can be a nice touch to light a candle or do something similar to create a bit of atmosphere.

Additional Resources Description
Empathy Cafe
project

project

IN WHICH THIS method WAS DEVELOPED
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Empathy Cafe
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